Sex FAQs from around the globe.
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.
What is the G-Spot?
Unlike men, women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot stimulation. Your partner may already climax fairly easily with clitoral stimulation or during intercourse. However, there is an area for stimulation inside her vagina called the G-Spot that you may not have found. Most people don't know about it. The G-Spot is a bean shaped mass of nerve tissue located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The G-Spot is the focal point of the female sexual arousal. The size and location of the G-Spot will vary from woman to woman, but it's usually about the size of a quarter, and lies two to three inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. You may be able to help her have added pleasure, experience new sensations, and perhaps have a new type of climax.
Where can I find the G-Spot?
The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes women have a hard time finding it and do not even believe they have one. Here is an easy method to finding it.
To explore this area, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed, with a small pillow under her buttocks. Insert the length of your lubricated fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be about two inches inside the vagina. Press with one or two fingers against the front wall of her vagina. Because it's surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall, you may want to apply a little more pressure than usual.
When you stimulate the right spot, it will swell the way your penis does. Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place. She will be able to tell. When you find the sensitive spot, continue stimulating it and you may find that it becomes firm and swells much like the erectile tissue in your penis.
How do I stimulate the G-Spot?
Now that you've found the G-Spot, kneeling between your partner's legs you can use the thumb of your other hand to gently stimulate her clitoris at the same time. This combination should give her very intense sensations. She may climax in this position, or you have the alternative of continuing in a different position.
If your partner turns over onto her back, you can stimulate her G-Spot most easily if you lie between her legs. Then try inserting two fingers and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening, press upward with the tips of your fingers until you are pressing her G-Spot. Move your fingers from back and side to side. You can give her great pleasure by licking your partners clitoris and stimulating her G-Spot at the same time.
Another method is to have your partner lie on her belly with her legs spread apart and her hips slightly elevated. Insert your fingers with your palm down, into her vagina and explore the front wall. Have your partner move her pelvis to make contact with your fingers. As you feel your partner become more aroused, slip the other hand under her abdomen above her pubic hairs and slowly press.
What else is important about the g-spot?
Many women enjoy the "doggy" position during intercourse because it stimulates the G-Spot. This is because a man's penis has better access to the front wall of the vagina. Most women need firmer pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm, and a lot of friction to have a G-Spot orgasm.
Some women get a feeling of the need to urinate at first when the G-Spot is stimulated. Your partner may need to empty her bladder before you begin love making.
It's possible that by stimulating the G-Spot your partner may ejaculate a small amount of white or clear fluid when she climaxes.
Today there are nearly 60 million Internet users of and over 300 million home pages Although the Internet provides and endless amount of valuable information, it has also become a dangerous pitfall for the estimated 2 million sexually addicted Internet users, both in and out of recovery. For some, the Internet has become a virtual community in which sexual fantasy abounds and the gap between addiction and reality becomes wider.
Cybersex is delivered in three basic forms, The first and most common form is the online exchange of pornography in snapshot and video formats. This exchange may take place via e-mail, newsgroups, or home pages The second form is synchronous (live) communication such as chat rooms and interactive home pages. Finally, pornographic software and files may be distributed on diskettes or Compact Disc. Regardless of the form, cybersex can serve as a powerful trigger for the sexual addict. One reason that cybersex can be so dangerous for a sexual addict is that it entails many of the characteristics that recovering addicts try to avoid: isolation, fantasy, objectification anonymity, and sexual images.
The Internet does not create sexual addicts. However, it can and does provide a form of sexual acting out that can lead to the progression of sexually addictive behaviors. Censorship in any form other than self-censorship, is not viewed as a productive way to assist sexual addicts in their misuse of the Internet. The use of personal censor software (e.g., CyberPatrol, NetNanny, Surfwatch, etc.) is encouraged and can be helpful in the prevention of access to unwanted or unexpected sites containing sexual content.
All sexual addicts are responsible for their behavior and the consequences of their sexual acting out. While the Internet may provide easy access to sexualized information, the Internet cannot be blamed for the addiction or a relapse. Sexual addicts must set similar boundaries and limits that they have established for other sources of pornography.
It is also true that the Internet plays a role in educating individuals about healthy aspects of sexuality and there are many resources available for the recovering sexual addict. E-mail, online meetings, recovery discussion groups, and informative home pages are resources that recovering addicts use to benefit their own recovery. For some, the choice to utilize healthy Internet resources is not a problem, for others, it is a problem and abstinence must be applied to their Internet access.
Sexual addicts who are not in recovery have lost their freedom of choice. They are no longer free to choose whether or not they engage in sexual activities. While this does not excuse sexual addicts from their behavior, it does speak to the nature of addiction. Those who are experiencing discomfort as a result of their Internet use should seek consultation with a professional knowledgeable about sexual addiction.
