Celibacy Cara

I am not an emotional wreck, a feminist or religious zealot but I am CELIBATE (5+ years) & it's not all bad -- it's definitely safe, after all the worst I could do is break a fingernail (evil wicked grin).

It is a tremendous freedom not to ride the love/sex roller coaster - I have very serious career goals that takes alot of energy, concentration and time. The last thing I want to do is spend my spare time listening to some half-wit in a bar rambling on about blahblahsexblahblahbestblahmyplaceblahblah --YUK!- I watch the X-Files for my rush and occasionally drink extra-spicy Bloody Mary's-- and Martin, life is good!!