Celibacy Jason
First off, I am gay. While I have a strong sexual desire, I have never had a great sex life. I lost my virginity quite late at 22. For quite a while when I was younger, I thought it was "cool" that I was still a virgin. There was a part of me that was sad to lose it.
I can't really say what has shaped my interest in celibacy. I was particularly interested in a book on piercing that had a profile of this guy in US who was celibate. He talked a lot about this tribe in India where certain men, starting when they are pre-teens, stretch the ligaments in their penises so much, that after puberty, they are unable to experience an orgasm. This forces them to live a celibate life.
I thought that was interesting. And when I was living in the UK, I found a friend with similar interests. We had a contest to see who could go the longest without orgasm. I felt the experience fascinating -- it made me feel very sexual. I eventually lost after five weeks; he went on for 13.

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